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Overcoming Discouragement

 

“Overcoming Discouragement”
 (Philippians 1:3-8)
 
                                                                                  Dr. Richard S. Koole
                                                                                  Chapel Pointe
                                                                                  May 11, 2008
 
           
 
I. Introduction
 
A. Cover Story – U.S. News and World Report
 
               1. 25 million Americans suffer serious depression
 
a. 1 in 12 Americans
 
b. 60 people here today
 
               2. Symptoms
 
Of patients hospitalized for depression, 40 to 60 percent suffer from the disease in its classical form, once referred to as “melancholy.” Submerged in recrimination and self-doubt, these patients lose their appetite, suffer an array of bodily aches, show little interest in sex and awaken in the early-morning hours. They may pace the floor in agitation or their speech and movement may be drastically slowed, almost as if they had suddenly developed a peculiar and sudden form of brain damage.
 
               3. Those are the severe cases
 
B. But….most of us suffer to some degree
 
               1. Goes by some different names
 
                              a. “Discouragement” or “Worry”
 
 
               2. We hide it well….
 
                              a. Especially on Sunday mornings
 
                              b. Moms & Mothers Day
 
               4. But many of you are really hurting inside
 
                              a. All smiles at this meeting
 
                              b. But know what awaits tomorrow
 
                                             1. Facing a co-worker
 
                                             2. One of your children
 
                                             3. Financial crisis
 
                                             4. Possible lay off
 
               5. My confession
 
                              a. I’ve experienced lots of what is perceived as success
 
                              b. Yet I’m tempted to focus on the failures
 
                                             1. Discouragement
 
                              c. Or to worry about what might go wrong
 
C. Some Review
 
               1. The Journey….through the book of Philippians
 
               2. Will see some life-changing steps you should take
 
b. Previously:  “Joy in the Face of Adversity”
 
                     c. The next few weeks…
 
1. “Making a Difference in your World”
 
                                             *Are you an inert Christian?
 
2. “Restoring Lost Purity”
 
3. “Why the Righteous Suffer”
 
               3. But today, Philippians 1:3-8…
 
a. “Five Secrets to Overcoming Discouragement & Worry”
 
 
III. Text (Phil. 1:3-8)
 
A. Be thankful for the special people in your life…..v.3
 
(3) “I thank my God every time I remember you.”
 
               1. Paul was always thankful
 
               2.  He was thankful because of what God had done for him
 
                              a. Saved his soul
 
·         Undeserving
 
                              b. Allowed him to serve
 
                              c. Empowered him
 
               3. We should begin every day by thanking God
 
                              a. …for saving our soul
 
               4. …and also thank Him for the special people in our lives
 
               5. Paul had fond memories of the people from Philippi
 
                              a. Lydia’s conversion
 
                              b. Her hospitality
 
                              c. Conversion of demon-possessed girl
 
                              d. Conversion of jailer and family
 
               6. Don’t focus on people that have hurt you
 
                              a. Will never bring you joy
 
                              b. “Let it go!”
 
                              c. “Sad hearts focus on what is wrong with others”
 
               7. Especially thankful for a godly mother
 
                              a. ATT’s Mothers Day ad
 
                              b. Shocked from a phone call
 
               8. Mothers are the greatest evangelists in the church
 
                              a. Testimony of kids just baptized
 
                              b. What a blessing
 
               9. Thank God for those who have made a positive impact in your life
 
                              a. Even though they aren’t perfect
 
                              b. Some of my best friends are real characters
              
               10. Shock somebody this week
 
                              1. Birthday card from California!
 
B. Pray for those you love (v.4)
 
(4) “In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy”
 
               1. Paul delighted in praying for others
 
                              a. Liked to plead on their behalf
 
                              b. Caused him to have joy
 
               2. Paul was pre-occupied with needs of others
 
                              a. …and knew the power of prayer
 
               3. David Brainerd 
 
David Brainerd was a man of great spiritual power. The work which he accomplished by prayer was simply marvelous. Dr. A. J. Gordon, in giving a sketch of Brainerd’s experience, said:
 
“In the depths of those forests, alone, unable to speak the language of the Indians, he spent whole days literally in prayer. What was he praying for? He knew that he could not reach the Indians: he did not even understand their language. If he wanted to speak at all, he must find somebody who could vaguely interpret his thought: therefore he knew that anything he should do must be absolutely dependent upon the power of God.
 
“So he spent whole days in prayer, simply that the power of the Holy Ghost might come upon him so unmistakably that these people should not be able to stand before him. What was his answer? Once he preached and the interpreter was so intoxicated that he could hardly stand up. That was the best he could do. Yet scores were converted through that sermon. We can account for it only by the tremendous power of God behind him.”
 
               4. Who in your extended family is not saved?
 
                              a. Are you praying for their salvation?
 
                              b.  Prayer is your most powerful weapon
 
               5. Paul had a lot of needs
 
                              a. Prisoner
 
                              b. Bad health
 
                              c. Alone
 
               6. Yet pleaded for THEM!
 
               7. Rejoice as God answers your prayers and blesses others
 
                              a. Their finances
 
                              b. Their kids & marriage
 
                              c. Their church
 
C.  Join a band of brothers…or sisters (v. 5)
 
(5) “because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now,”
 
               1. A better translation for partnership is fellowship
 
                              a. “Koininea”
 
                              b. The fellowship of kindred spirits
 
               2. The WWII generation is passing away before our very eyes
 
                              a. My dad about to turn 87
 
                              b. Bands of Brothers under fire – WWII
 
·         Danger
 
·         Deprivation
 
                              c. “Those were the best days of my life”
 
·         Joy in serving together
 
               3. Standing shoulder-to-shoulder in this church
 
                              a. Will be remembered as the best days of your life
 
                              b. Become part of a our band of brothers
 
                              c. Some of you have been on the sidelines too long
 
·         Time to commit
 
·         Time to get into the game
 
               4. You’ll get back more than you give
 
                              a. Shared work
 
                              b. Striving together
 
                              c. Meeting each other’s needs
 
               5. We could learn valuable lessons from the “Bees”
 
One bee always seems ready to feed another bee, sometimes even one of a different colony. Mutual feeding among bees is the order of their existence. The workers feed the helpless queen who cannot feed herself. They feed the drones during their period of usefulness in the hive. Of course they feed the young. They seem to enjoy the social act.
 
Bees cluster together for warmth in cold weather and fan their wings to cool the hive in hot weather, thus working for one another’s comfort.
 
When swarming time comes, bee scouts head out to find suitable quarters where the new colony can establish itself. These scouts report back to the group, executing a dance (as they also do to report nectar) by which they convey the location of the prospective home to the colony. As more than one scout goes prospecting and reports back, the bees appear to entertain the findings of all scouts and at last the entire assembly seems to reach a common conclusion on a choice. Thereupon they all take wing in what is called a swarm.
 
D. Don’t fall prey to the sin of worry    (v. 6)
 
(6) “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
 
               1. Paul had “confidence”
 
                              a. It was God’s work they were doing
 
                              b. Let God worry about the outcome
 
                              c. Paul’s job was to obediently do whatever God brought his way
 
               2.  Pastors who worry about their churches
 
                              a. Just need remain obedient…and work hare
 
                              b. Let God worry about results
 
               3. “Remain confident….until the day of Jesus Christ”
 
                              a. When believers are glorified
 
               4. You may not know what is coming next…but God does
 
                              a. He is in control
 
                              b. He knows all
 
                              c. He hasn’t deserted you
 
               5. “Worry” is the opposite of “Confidence”
 
                              a. And “worry” is a sin
 
               6. John Wesley used to say that he would just as soon swear as to worry
 
Worrying is evidence of a serious lack of trust in God and His unfailing promises. Worry saddens, blights, destroys, kills. It depletes one’s energies, devitalizes the physical man, and enervates the whole spiritual nature. It greatly reduces the spiritual stature and impoverishes the whole spirit.
 
               7. Lessons from Elijah…..I Kings 19
 
(1) And Ahab told Jezebel all that Elijah had done, also how he had executed all the prophets with the sword. 
 
                              a. Elijah was one powerful man….
 
·   Shut the heavens from raining for 3 ½  years
 
·   Was miraculously fed
 
o   Brook Cherith and the ravens
 
·   Raised the widow of Zarapheth’s son from the dead
 
                              b. What he had just done…
 
·   Called fire from Heaven
 
·   Slew 400 prophets of Baal
 
·   Called rain from the heavens
 
·   Stood alone against King Ahab and Queen Jezebel     
                                      
o   The worst king Israel ever had
 
o   None of you named a daughter after Jezebel
 
                              c. Never anyone more powerful than Elijah!
 
·      No question that the hand of God was on him
 
                              d. How did discouragement and worry snare him?
 
·   The same way it gets you!
 
E.  Nobody is immune to worry and discouragement
 
(2) Then Jezebel sent a messenger to Elijah, saying, “So let the gods do to me, and more also, if I do not make your life as the life of one of them by tomorrow about this time.” (3) And when he saw that, he arose and ran for his life, and went to Beersheba, which belongs to Judah, and left his servant there. (4) But he himself went a day’s journey into the wilderness, and came and sat down under a broom tree. And he prayed that he might die, and said, “It is enough! Now Lord, take my life, for I am no better than my fathers!”
 
               1. Is this the same guy?
 
               2. What a mess!
 
                              a. Tired
 
                              b. Alone
 
                              c. Suicidal
 
                              d. Has given up
 
                              e. Fugitive
 
               3. What happened to the guy?
 
               4. How could he ever get scared?
 
                              a. Fire and rain from Heaven
 
                              b. Killed the 400 Prophets of Baal
 
                              c. Revival had been ignited
 
·         …and in sneaks Satan!
 
               5. Jezebel’s threat
 
                              a. was probably just bluffing
 
               6. Nobody is immune to worry or discouragement
 
F. Worry comes when we forget God’s past faithfulness
 
               1. Elijah totally ignored the past 3 ½ years
 
a.  and ran for his life
 
                              b. held a private “pity party”
 
               2. How faithful has God been in your life?
 
a.       Has he ever let you down?
 
                              b. Do you forget about all he has brought you through?
 
               3. Where is your confidence
 
G.  God knows where you are and what you’re suffering
 
1. Most of the lessons I’ve learned in life have come with suffering attached to them…and not pleasure
 
2. When I look back and knowing more than I did at the time, I realize that if I had known all that God knew, I’d have done it the way God did it.
              
3. The call to be a pastor is the call to suffering
 
                              a. Yet the confidence I now have
 
H. Don’t worry about what might go wrong
 
(Philippians 1:6) “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
 
               1. I’ve been guilty of worry
 
                              a. Over what might happen
 
               2. Crossing the Fox River 
 
When Lincoln was on his way to Washington to be inaugurated, he spent some time in New York with Horace Greeley and told him an anecdote which was meant to be an answer to the question which everybody was asking him: Are we really to have Civil War? In his circuit-riding days Lincoln and his companions, riding to the next session of court, had crossed many swollen rivers. But the Fox River was still ahead of them; and they said one to another, “If these streams give us so much trouble, how shall we get over Fox River?”
              
When darkness fell, they stopped for the night at a log tavern, where they fell in with the Methodist presiding elder of the district who rode through the country in all kinds of weather and knew all about the Fox River. They gathered about him and asked him about the present state of the river. “I know all about the Fox River, I have crossed it often and understand it well. But I have one fixed rule with regard to Fox River—I never cross it till I reach it.”
 
               3. “We’ll cross that bridge when we get there”
 
               4. Mothers and fathers
 
                              1. Trusting your children to God
 
                              2. Do worry over what might happen
 
I. Worry is like paying interest on a debt you may never owe
 
               1. If you can’t do anything about it anyway
 
                              a. Wasted energy
 
 “Worry is like a rocking chair. It will give you something to do, but it won't get you anywhere."
 
               2. Worry will stunt your spiritual growth
 
               3. Worry will suck the joy out of your life
 
J. Worry can drive you from God’s place of service
 
(9) And there Elijah went into a cave, and spent the night in that place; and behold, the word of the Lord came to him, and He said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”
 
               1. “there”
 
                              a. Alone in the wilderness….on the run
 
               2. A revival had started back in Israel
 
                              a.  Elijah was supposed to lead it
 
               3. “What are you doing out here?”
 
4. Discouragement will drive you away from God’s intended place of service
 
                              a. Pastors who flee just ahead of the blessing
 
              
K. Strive to love like Jesus loves    (v. 7-8)
 
(7) “It is right for me to feel this way about all of you, since I have you in my heart; for whether I am in chains or defending and confirming the gospel, all of you share in God’s grace with me. (8) God can testify how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.”
 
               1. Had affection for them
 
                              a. Stood by him while in chains
 
·         Sent money
 
·         Sent help
 
·         Sent prayers
 
                              b. Stood by him in his defense
 
·         His trial
 
·         Defended his reputation
 
·         True friends
 
               2. “God can testify how much I love you” (v.8)
 
                              a. God knows my heart
 
                              b. Paul longed for them
 
                              c. The key is the pastor’s love for his people
 
               3. I long to see certain people
 
a. I love them
 
b. Shared a struggle
 
c. Drawn close
 
               4. Supernatural affection
 
                              a. “with the affection of Christ Jesus” (v.8)
 
                              b. Driven by the indwelling of the Holy Spirit
 
· Supernatural affection
 
                              c. Only Christians can know
 
               5. Strive to love like Jesus loves
 
                              a. That kind of love is sacrificial
 
                              b. Stranded in Antarctica
 
Sir Ernest Shackleton was asked to tell of his most terrible moment in the Antarctic. And he said his worst was one night in an emergency hut. He and his fellows were lying there; he rather apart from the rest. They had given out the ration of the last biscuits. There was nothing more to divide. Every man thought the other was asleep. 
 
He sensed a stealthy movement and saw one of the men turning to see how the others were faring. He made up his mind that all were asleep and then stretched over the next man and took his biscuit bag and removed the biscuit. Shackleton lived through an eternity of suspense. He would have trusted his life in the hands of that man. Was he turning out a thief under terribly tragic circumstances? Stealing a man’s last biscuit!
 
Then Shackleton sensed another movement. He saw the man open his own box, take the biscuit out of his own bag and put it in his comrade’s, and return the man’s biscuit and stealthily put the bag back at the man’s side. Shackleton said, “I dare not tell you that man’s name. I felt that act was a secret between himself and God.”
 
               6. The love of Jesus was “sacrificial”
              
III. Summary
 
A. God doesn’t give up on his kids
 
               1. Even when we give up on ourselves
 
               2. God had a plan for Elijah….even though he didn’t know what it was
 
                              a. Elijah
 
                                             1. “I’m a failure”
 
                                             2. “I’m no better than my fathers”
 
                                             3. “It is enough….I’m done”
 
“Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
 

 

 

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